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enjoying the sunset and watching other people's yachts pass by in front of you. What's most important isn't the kind of abundance you have or desire, but that you have positive feelings about wealth in all its forms.
Recently, a client of mine came to the conclusion that she could either rent a home in the neighborhood where she wanted to live or buy a home in another community where housing prices and taxes are lower. She feels a tremendous sense of abundance as she looks at her beautiful, large apartment; the wonderful public school in the neighborhood that she's able to send her children to; and the rich network of friends and family she has in her community. Leaving that all behind to gain equity in a house elsewhere doesn't appeal to her. She has abundance in her life, and as long as she experiences it and feels the power of that emotion, she'll continue to attract riches. Maybe she'll receive that wealth in a form that will allow her to purchase a home in her current neighborhood, and maybe she won't-but even if she doesn't, her abundance will serve her and make it easier for her to feel happiness.
My client is even able to feel abundance despite having a significant debt, and she believes that by continuing to vibrate gratitude and wealth, she'll eventually attract enough money to pay it off. She makes a point of not feeling negative about the money she owes, and instead feels positive about creating wealth so that she can continue to chip away at that debt.
Negative feelings often surround debt, causing it in the first place and then worsening it. Very often people overspend out of a feeling of lack, fear, or unworthiness. When they see that they've accrued debt, those negative feelings increase and they spend even more. People often avoid facing up to and addressing their debts because they don't want to feel the guilt, shame, or fear they would experience if they thought about how much they're in the hole. In fact, creditors capitalize on these fears. Although they know that their power to force someone to pay off their debt immediately is extremely limited, they recognize that most people don't know that and won't research their rights-they'll just get scared and follow the creditors' lead, feeling pressured into paying more than they can handle.