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PATIENCE, PLANNING AND SUPPORT: REFLECTIONS ON DEALING WITH AGING FAMILY MEMBERS
2. Can I physically assist my loved one up from bed to the bathroom, around the house, shower, and do home physical therapy? When my Dad first came home from the hospital, physical therapy could not start until later, so my Mom and I had to
help. My Mom and I are strong and athletic, but we often struggle to help my Dad with the activities of daily living because of his size and lack of strength. This was a two-person job, and sometimes we felt it should be a three-person job. We often needed to ask my daughter for help. Having other people available in the home to assist or close by was important.
3. Is the space where the patient will stay after the hospitalization functional for limited mobility? This question should include whether a walker can easily move from a bed/recliner to the bathroom and whether there are grab bars or a pole by the bed/toilet. Is the shower accessible for two people (the patient and the person holding and washing them)? Is the toilet high enough to use, and are there bars for stability? Is there a need for a lift recliner, an adjustable bed, or a hospital bed? Will a walker with a seat be needed for longer ambulation? There are medical supply rental
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companies in most large community locations. The more you can plan the space and the needs ahead of time, the more prepared you will be.
Can I troubleshoot if something goes wrong?
We had to make a last-minute run to the drug store many times, and we sometimes had to go to multiple drug stores to find something. We could not have
left my Dad at home to do this, but he also was not well enough to go with us. We would ask my brother or daughter to run food/medication errands when necessary. Having sufficient help at home or close by is essential and something you may not think of. Three or more people may be necessary if the patient needs transfers, is heavy, or has any unique care needs.
Do I have the ability to provide the necessary health care at home during the recovery period? This includes having a sufficient number of supplies and the training necessary to help with the care. If your loved one has diabetes, do you have adequate supplies? If your loved one takes multiple medications, you will need to speak with an attending physician or primary care provider to discuss drug reactions and interactions.
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