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TO MY ONLY SISTER
My sweet, dearest one and only sister. You left me with-
out any warning. Never in a million years did I think I would be planning your funeral. I miss you more than words can express. I keep trying to come to grips with you not being here anymore but it is so hard to accept.
You were a bold courageous soul. You were fearless!! No matter who or what came up against you, you never backed down. You loved life and you celebrated it as though you knew your
TO MY DEAR BIG SISTER CINDY
One of the very first memories of you that comes to my mind is you teaching me how to drive. Not only did you teach me how to drive automatic but manual vehicles as well. I’ll never forget that purple tuna can sized car you had. I remember us driving through what seemed like a block par- ty and you telling me “If you don’t want to get shame in front of all these people you better not stall out” while embracing the fact that it was already shameful just driving that small purple car. Regardless, it was fun. We raced my friend Devon without standing a chance but it was fun and I remember you teaching me how-to drive- up hill and staying level. We went on many trips to the United States just me and you and one of the most memorable was when we went to the car auction and I bought my mustang. As I’ve developed into a man, I’ve made it a point to take the best characteristics of the people I love and respect and apply it to myself. From you I’ve learned to be bold, direct and confident. I’ve never seen you back down from a challenge and you had no problem telling someone how you felt. You and I would argue one day and the next day you’re calling me with a cheerful voice “hey lil bro”, all the while I would still be annoyed. You were a very kind and helpful person, you never complained about what someone was asking for help with, you always responded with what times you would be available. You have surely left your mark on this earth and I know for a fact you’ve touched the hearts of many people. I can go on for years about the times we’ve spent together but I will close saying I love you and I know you are safe with God looking down on us.
YOUR ONLY BROTHER
time here was short. You were certainly the life of the party and once you were around your presence was sure- ly felt. You expressed your opinions with pas- sion and you stood by what you believed.
MahlonnBethel Jr.
Marla
Your love for each of
us was felt everyday
through your actions.
I could call on you for
anything I needed and
my kids could call on you as well. I remember you an- swering my calls “Yes Marla what do you want” and I would say “why you answering me like that” and then you would say “because I know you want me to do something for you” Which of course was true. You nev- erletmedown. AllIhadtodowassweetyouupwitha little gas money.
You were not only my sister, you were my friend. We had a close relationship and we could depend on each other at all times. Now I am left without you. My kids love and miss you so much. We feel lost without you Cin. They would tell me I need to be cool like you! They enjoyed your company to the fullest. You were the cool fun aunt who picked them up from school and played their favorite songs on the radio and bought them Burger King on the way home from school. They have so many great memories of you.
We talked just about everyday. I remember the days when I would call you before 10:00 am and you would row me for waking you up. Oh how you loved your sleep! Now you are resting peacefully in the arms of your heavenly father.
You made a mark in our hearts and you will never be forgotten. Take your eternal rest my dear sister I love you.
YOUR ONLY SISTER