Page 4 - Guide: I Don't Want A Divorce

LETTER OF RESPONSIBILITY
Letter of repentance, explaining each bad behaviour, without any qualifications, excuses, or rationalisations
Should take three or more days to complete Letter will include four elements:
1. Confessing your sin in specific, detailed way
2. Feel sorry and realise the impact your sin has had on your spouse 3. Ask for forgiveness
4. Changing your behaviour
Learn how to fight
THE 3 C’S
1. Caring Behaviours 2. Compliments
3. Communicate
“In a healthy marriage, couples focus on the positives; in an unhealthy marriage, couples focus on the negatives”
CARING BEHAVIOURS:
Husband leads Fun and play COMPLIMENTS: Each other When speaking to others COMMUNICATE: Regularly Open and honest Vulnerability
Past pain transfer letters