Page 113 - Your Leader Within Introduction

“The ‘Joining’ process is central to overcome our fears, especially the fear of love and intimacy. That said, you have to have the courage to see it through.”
What is the “Joining” process and how does it work?
It’s simple and it works. You simply sit with another person whom you want to be intimate with and gaze into their eyes without speaking. You will quickly find that this is not an easy exercise as simple as it sounds.
My wife Karen and I have been married for 36 years and still find this process difficult although we are very close. It takes courage and a commitment to stick with it, but it is a sure way to begin to hear and trust the power of your intuition.
Here, as Spar describes the process, you have to realize that words are just symbols that often get in the way of intimacy.
Spar: Words mean nothing
You start with a purpose or a question and then you look into the other person’s eyes until something reveals itself.
Once you have “joined” over a period of time, you will experience the divine at some point. This is the
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