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Sefer Chafetz Chayim                                                                    םייח ץפח רפס
                                 Hilchot Esurei Lashon Hara                                                            ערה ןושל ירוסיא תוכלה
                                   Kelal Zayin  -  Halachah 9                                                              די הכלה -  ז ללכ


                not conclude from his silence that the remarks were true, because there                    רבד שי הז לעו ירמגל םה םירשכ תקזחבו ללכ
                the reason is that perhaps (the victim was silent because he understood)
                “the circumstances there would not have tolerated any answer he might                      רחאב אלו הזב תולתל שי יאדוב כ"א תצק רכינה
                offer, etc.,” as I wrote further on, but here Rebbe knew that reason was                   ונאד וננינעב כ"אשמ .שממ רכינה רבדכ בושחו
                not applicable.
                                                                                                           בנג אוהש רמולו ריעה ינבמ דחא לע קיזחהל ןיצור
                The rule that emerges from our words is that from Rashi’s words we have                    ןכ רמול ןיא תצק רכינה רבד םעטמ ץפחה הז תא
                no proof at all that would allow leniency in this law and permit accepting
                Lashon Hara as truth and if so how could we ourselves institute a new                      הברה ואצמי ריעה ישנא לכב קדקדנשכ יאדוובד
                leniency, especially since we supported the opposite view at the beginning                 םינינעב םהירבח ןוממב כ"כ ןירהזנ ןיאש והומכ
                of  this  notation  that  the  only  “incidental”  testimony  Chazal  allow  in  a
                Torah precept is the testimony regarding a woman’s marital status.  Even                   ןכלו הזב אצויכו הירבחד אמילגב םהידי בגנל ולאכ
                though one could refute this somewhat by arguing that perhaps “incidental”                 ל"נכו הבינגה םצע לע הרויש רכינה רבד ךירצ
                remarks that are Lashon Hara are different than other kinds of “incidental”
                remarks and they are believable, still, what basis do we have for making                      .ש"יע א"שרהמהו ל"שרהמה םשב ו"כ ק"סב
                this distinction and creating this leniency, especially since this involves an
                esur in a Torah precept?  Therefore I wrote that people should be cautious
                in this regard.  Please see what I wrote at the end of the 16  notation of the
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                Be’er Mayim Chayim.                                                                                         םייחה רוקמ
                                                                                                     םִאֶשׁ ,וּלּא םינינִעבּ ןיִעוֹט םיִשׁנא המּכּ ,הארְִתּ הזִּמוּ .די
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                                          Hagahah                                                    יבוֹטל םירְִמוֹא ,דָשׁח דחא לע םהל שׁיו ,ץפח םהל בנגנ
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                I have written all of this based on a commentary of the Maharshal cited              םיִכּמ םהו ,םירִכּנּה םירִבדּ דחא לע םהל שׁיֶּשׁ ,ריִעה
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                above in the 2  Kelal in the 6  notation of the Be’er Mayim Chayim.  The   VOL-3
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                law derived from that citation is that Rechilut is forbidden even if the first       אלֶֹּשׁ אוּה תמאבוּ .הדֶוֹיֶּשׁ ידֵכּ ,ןידּה ןִמ אלֶֹּשׁ ,ןיִשׁנוֹעו
                speaker made his remarks “in the presence of three people” and a second
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                person “incidentally” repeated what he heard (one may not believe the                םצעל היארְ וֹמכּ אוּה םירִכּנּה םירִבדְדּ אהי וּלדּ ,ןידּכּ
                remarks).  But based on the statement that I wrote in the middle of that             ,ךְירִצ אלֹה ,ןידּ תיבּ וֹמכּ יִביִשׁח ריִעה יבוֹטו ,הֶשֲׂעמּה
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                citation “If not for the statement of the Maharshal” cited above, it seems
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                to me that it is also possible to say that Bar Kapparah’s remarks were               וֹא ,םירִכּנּה םירִבדּהל םידִֵע םגו ,בנגנֶּשׁ הלִּחְתִּמ וּעדְיֶּשׁ
                made “in the presence of three people” and Rebbe Shimon “incidentally”
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                repeated them to his father, Rebbe.                                                  ךְֹמסִל אלֹ לבא ,)ארְָטוּז רַמְדּ הֶשֲׂעַמְבּ וֹמְכּ( וּארְִי םָמְצַעְבּ םֵהֶשׁ
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                                                                                                     ןיִמאהל קרַ וּלִּפאו .םנִּחבּ לארְָשׂי תא תוֹכּהלוּ עבוֹתּה לע
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                                    Be’er Mayim Chayim                               6               ןוֹשׁל תלבּקַ ינְפִּמ רוּסא ,וֹתִּאֵמ בנגּ הז שׁיִאֶשׁ ,בלּבּ עבוֹתּל
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                (K7/9/4)-(19)..to repeat them to others: This is no better than had                  רוּסִּאדּ ,וֹתוֹכּהלוּ הז לע ךְֹמסִל המּכו המּכּ תחא לעו ,ערָה
                he seen the event himself, the denigration of a fellow Jew, he would be
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                forbidden from repeating what he had seen, as I wrote above in the 4                     ."ףיִסוֹי אלֹ"דּ ואל לע םירִבוֹעו ,הזבּ םיִשׂוֹע לוֹדגּ
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                Kelal, the 4  halacha.  And even though that law was expressed in an
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