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Introduction to                                                                         החיתפ
                                 Sefer Chafetz Chayim                                                                   םייח ץפח רפסל
                                     Laveen - L15
                                                                                                                         ט-ח ואל - ןיואל

                                 Be’er Mayim Chayim                                                    ןיב תקולחמ אפוגד ארעצ ורעיצ םא ונירבדמ אצויה

             (L15)  If these people were orphans or widows: This is the opinion                        אקיפסו ונממ םוקנל הרותה ןמ רתומ םא םינושארה
                                                                th
             of the Rambam in the sixth perek of Hilchot De'Aut in the 10  halacha.                    אוה וילע ול שיש הלועה םא לבא .ארמוחל אתירואד
             What I wrote above “He degraded them” is based on the language used
             by the Rambam in his Sefer HaMitzvot (mitzvah (Lav) #256), that we are                    לכב ונממ םוקנל רוסא אמלע ילוכל ןוממ ינינע רובע
             cautioned against tormenting orphans and widows.  As the pasuk teaches                                   .םינפב ש"מכ אנווג
             “Do not torment any widow or orphan.”  This warning of the Torah applies
             to verbal torment or torment caused by some action.  The Torah is warning
             us to speak nicely and softly to them.  This is the Rambam's language in
             Hilchot De'Aut: People are obligated to be careful in their dealings with                 ונקתעהש םיארי רפסה ירבדמ ונירבד לע השקת לאו
             widows and orphans.  How should one behave with them?  One should                         ןומממ אקודד הרואכל הינימ עמשמד הלעמל וירבד
             speak softly to them and extend to them any courtesy or honor.  One should
             not cause them to work too hard (to the point where their bodies ache) and                הז  תוליכר  וא  ר"השל  וילע  רביד  םא  לבא  ןוממל
             not cause them any emotional anguish with harsh words.  One should be                     ריבסהל  קר  םיאריה  תנווכד  וניא  הזד  ןוממ  יוה  אל
             concerned about preserving their assets even more than one would protect
             one's own wealth.  Anyone who instigates against them or angers them                      םוקנל רתומ ףוגה רעצ ורעיצ םאד ארמגה עדי אנמ
             or causes them pain or forces labor upon them or causes them to lose                      הזלו  ינווג  לכב  הרותה  הרסא  אמליד  ונממ  רוטנלו
             their wealth violates this Lav.  And all the more so is this the case if one
             hits them or curses them. Although there are no lashes given for violating                ורעיצ אוהש המד תודימ ג"ימ תחאב םיאריה ריבסה
             this Lav, the Torah’s punishment is explicit “My wrath will be aroused                    אפוג הריטנהו המיקנה לבא ןוממ ינינעב היה הליחתמ
             and I will kill you by the sword.”  There is a covenant decreed by The
             -One-Who-Spoke-and-Created-the-Universe that as long as widows and                        ירהד ז"ע היארו ינווג לכב הרסאד יאדו הרותה הרסאש
             orphans are oppressed to the extent that they are forced to cry up because                ןומממ רומח אפוגד ארעצד ל"נה אמויד ארמגמ עמשמ
             of theft or violence done to them they will be answered, as the pasuk says
             “when they cry up to Me.”  And when is that? When their well-being is                     יכיה ו"כאע ןוממב רוטנלו םוקנל הרותה הרסאד ןויכו
             being physically threatened by an oppressor.  But if a rav “oppresses” them               ג"י לש דומילהד ירה רוסאד ףוגה רעצב היהי המיקנהד
             in order to teach them Torah or a trade or to help them along a correct path
             in life  then this coercion is allowable.                                                 ןויכד דועו .הליחתמ ורעיצ אוהש המב קר יאק אל תודמ
                                                                                                       ונחכוהש ומכ רוטנל דבל בלב וליפא הרותה הרסאש
             Even so, they should not be treated like everyone else. Instead, one should
             differentiate between them and other people, one should treat them gently                 ינווג לכב רוסא אליממ םיקסופ ראשו ם"במרהמ ליעל
             and with great compassion and dignity and honor because the pasuk says                    בותכה תרזגד קר יכה אמית אל יאד ,הריטנהו המיקנה
             (Mishle 22:23) “because Hashem will fight their battles.” (The Rambam
             is quoted up until this point).  The Se’Mag holds the same opinion in his                 רעצב  ורעצל  רתומ  לבא  רוסא  ןוממל  ןומממ  אקוד
             commentary on Lav #8.  In a similar sense, Rabbeinu Yonah writes in                       ונבתכש ומכ יאדו אלא בלב רטונ אוה פ"כע כ"א ףוגה
             Shaare Teshuvah (3  sha’ar section # 24, in the middle of that section)
                              rd
             “Whoever bothers or torments or annoys  a widow or an orphan, either by                        .ינווג לכב יריימד הריטנד אימוד המיקנו
             stealing from them in any manner or by shaming them or causing them any
             kind of anguish, is guilty and will be punished with death by Heaven.”  The
             Chinuch holds the same opinion in mitzvah #65, that even if they endure



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