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Narcaship:
The state of mind of one being disconnected while the other is connected. Opposite of a relationship. The disconnect by two people who are related by blood or marriage. One person being invested or committed and the other is living a double life or pretends to be invested but is seeking supply elsewhere. State in which two people behave towards one another. Disconnected relation, double life, pseudo relationship, double dealing, treacherous, illusion.
Narcissistic Personality Disorder Terminology
Narrative:
This word is rooted in the word to narrate or tell a story. In terms of narcissism it is a way of presenting a situation or series of events that reflects and promotes a particular point of view or set of values. Narcissists use it to rewrite history and put an entirely different spin on the truth.
Narcissistic Supply or Supplies:
This is what a narcissist uses to prop up their self esteem. It can be a thing, or a person. For example a charity or someone who is generous with their compliments and makes them look good in the public eye.
NPD
An acronym meaning: Narcissistic Personality Disorder
Parentification/Parentify
Expecting children to play the role of a parent and meet their own personal emotional needs, physical needs and or sexual needs.
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Pre-Emptive Defense
This is what happens when a narcissist uses language to convince you that you should trust them before they have earned that trust. They do this by boasting about their virtues and dropping subtle suggestions to convince you that they are great. Conditioning you into perceptions that are incorrect.