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Tips for Writing a Death Notice
A Death Notice will be posted in the “Obituaries” section of our website. You may also choose to have it printed in the newspaper. When you have the arrangement conference, your funeral director would be glad to assist you in composing the death notice and will make arrangements with the newspaper for you.
The following information is customarily included in a death notice:
• Full name of the deceased (a nickname could also be included)
• City of town of residence
• Some indication of the nature of the
death – such as, “suddenly”, or “after a
long illness”
• List of immediate family members of the
deceased, specifying if they are alive or dead, through the terms “deceased was pre-deceased by his sister...” or “is survived by his wife”
• Location and times for the visitation and funeral service
• Any memorable way of honouring the deceased, as by mentioning personal achievements, hobbies and interests, military service etc.
Transporting the Deceased to another Country for Burial
We have extensive experience shipping caskets to other countries for burial. If you require international transportation, please advise us as soon as the death has occurred, so we can begin making arrangements with the appropriate authorities. Please be advised that complying with the requirements of other jurisdictions takes time – a minimum of one week, often longer.
Acknowledging Kindness
In the month after a funeral, it is customary to send thank you notes to friends and family who have served as pallbearers, made memorial donations or sent flowers,
mass cards, food or other condolence gifts. You can order acknowledgment cards through your funeral director. Short personal notes can be written on these cards. People tell us they sometimes find it hard to comes up with the appropriate words for these thank you notes. Just a few lines are all that is needed to show that you and the family appreciate the kindness that has been shown to you.
Funeral Etiquette
When attending a visitation or a funeral, you might find yourself uncertain of what you should wear, what to say or what to do. We’ve put together a short guide to the basics of funeral home etiquette to help you pay your respects with courtesy and consideration.
What to Wear
Try to find out the dress code before you attend, so that you can be sure you’ll fit in and look appropriate. If you aren’t sure, simply try to dress in a conservative way that shows respect for the family and other mourners. This doesn’t necessarily mean you must wear black (in fact, some families specify “no black” for their services) but, try to avoid overly bright colours. For men, a suit and a conservative tie is usually a safe bet. Women should generally wear a dress, skirt or pants with a tasteful blouse.
Religious and Ethnic Customs
Traditions and customs differ among various communities, ethnic groups and religions and it’s often helpful to ask beforehand about any special considerations you need to take into account. We can answer many of your questions and can also point you toward resources that offer specific detailed guides.
Emotions
A funeral is an emotional time and grieving is a natural part of the healing process. Don’t feel uncomfortable if you or the bereaved begins to cry.
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