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Eat off your partner’s plate. Share dessert. If you are a germaphobe this might be too far out of your comfort zone. But you could always put on a hazmat suit and put a little bit of your dessert on your partner’s plate and share like that.
Ask
“Is there anything that you would like for me to do for you today”
If the answer is “yes,” don’t forget to do what you offered to do. In the early stages of partnership, lovers go out of the way to do things which please and help their partners. It is part of the observation I make about partners being more generous and selhless until they become secure and selhish. Asking this question and placing your partners needs above your own brings you back to the point of the journey when you partner was the most important thing on your mind.
Play in Bed
When partners are hirst hinding out about one another in romantic and sexual ways, they experiment, explore what turns their partner on. They are eager to give pleasure and grateful to receive it — at least they should be. When relationships become stale, sex can become a “lazy dance,” a series of habitual behaviors that unimaginatively lead to orgasm if everyone’s lucky. Sex is an activity that happens on many levels and communicates in many ways. It communicates interest, value, appreciation, reciprocity to name just
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