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The Three Most Important, Powerful and Misunderstood Words In Any Language 52 What Are The Tasks of Managing Disappointment? 61 One Last Word About Intention or Trying 61 Chapter Four 64 Re-Dedication: Coming Back to the Beginning 64 Relationship “Energies” and Directions 64 Pulls, Pushes and Holds 65 Another One of My Stories 67 Why The Prescription Is Good Medicine 71 Re-Dedication Brings A Couple Back In Time 73 Chapter Five 77 Equity, Balance and Control: Exchanges (Transactions) in Relationships 77 The Currencies 78 Unconditional Love 79 Equity and Balance 81 More On Equity Versus Equality 82 Control: Who is Driving the Bus? 86 Chapter Six 89 Forgiveness 89 Forgiveness is an Intention Different From Those We Have Become Familiar With 89 Content versus Process 90 The Incident of the Israeli Chicken Salad 91 What’s Bothering You? Nothing. 98 Forgiveness Is An Attempt to Preserve A Loving Relationship When It Falters 100
The Work of Maintenance and Repair Healing Space
Breaking Down Forgiveness
Asking for Forgiveness (Apologizing) There’s No Harm In Asking
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