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• They think of creative ways to give each other (physical) pleasure.
• They do things that make the other person say, “Awwwwwwww.”
• They higure out what the other person likes, and they give those
things freely.
• They put the needs of their partner above their own needs.
• They listen to what their partner tells them they need and they
give it to them without having to constantly ask for it.
• They let their partner know through words and actions that they
are desirable, essential to living a good and happy life.
• They have faith in their love so even when they are not hearing
what they want to hear or getting what they want at the moment, they believe they are loved and they continue to give love.
There are many other behaviors I can place on that list. These are only the ones I came up with in a few minutes. I look at the list I just shared and I could say that if I didn’t get caught off guard by the question about “the love prescription,” maybe this list would have been an even better prescription — but then I realize it would’t be, because no one does all of those things all of the time and not every partner needs all of those things all of the time or even any of the time.
Why The Prescription Is Good Medicine
It’s not the individual line or menu items in “the big list” that make the prescription “good medicine” for a relationship. I don’t think that is what caused people to say that was the their favorite part of the seminar. What I was missing is that it’s not about a list of things to
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