Page 2 - 101 Ways to Make A Difficult Divorce Easier On Your Children

angry ex-spouse coax you into battle and prevent you from doing what is best for your children.
Very few children want their parents to be divorced, but kids who have to live with the disappointment of growing up in separate families do best when they can say that their Mom and Dad spared them years of bickering, confrontations and immature behavior. Help your child avoid a lifetime of being embarrassed, hurt and confused by your failure to develop a business-like and cooperative relationship with your ex. It's your choice, Mom and Dad - please do the right thing.
Common Courtesy:
1. Clean your children's weekend clothes before you send them back to the co-parent.
2. Send clean clothes when the children leave for visitation.
3. Prepare your children when it is time for a telephone call from the other parent. Say, "Mom (or Dad) is going to call to see how your day went. When the phone rings I want you to stop what you are doing and talk for a while."
4. Do not snoop in on telephone conversations with the co-parent. If something bad happens during the call, you'll hear about it soon enough.
5. During visitation changes, try to make the very first thing you say to the co-parent something positive.
6. Allow the co-parent to have access to information about school, sports, activities and doctor's appointments. Even if you are the custodial parent, you are not the only parent.
7. Tell the co-parent about a doctor’s visit as soon as you make it. 8. If you have to cancel a visit at the last minute, first tell the co-
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