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INDEPENDENCE IN ELEMENTARY SCHOOL
Written by: Shelley Kress Award-Winning Las Vegas Teacher
Elementary school is a vital time for introducing independence to a child. As children get older, they obviously take on more independence—either in tasks or character. These are some of the skills to look for in your children!
Early Elementary (Ages 5-7)
Can follow simple one-step instructions: This can be “close the door” or “pick up your shoes.” These instructions should be age-appropriate and direct. Complete basic homework assignments with some guidance: This would involve sitting with your child and redirecting and helping to refocus as needed. The content should enable the child to feel capable of completing the task independently.
Start to develop organizational skills: Setting up a routine for your child is incredibly helpful. Keeping shoes in a specific place, hanging backpacks and coats in a designated area, etc. Remember! Staying organized as a family assists the child in doing the same.
Learning to share & take turns: Teachers will focus a lot of attention on this during school hours, but reinforcing at home with siblings, cousins, and playmates is very important. Children need to understand that sharing and taking turns needs to happen in all areas. Also, explain that just because we encourage everyone to share doesn't necessarily mean that they need to give up what they are playing with - but to show kindness and play together.
Express feelings verbally rather than through actions: “Use your words” is a great phrase to use when encouraging your child to express their feelings more positively.
Pack their own backpack: Parents will need to assist their children initially, but once a routine is established, children should be able to pack their bags for the day. Keeping their responsibilities simple will be key. If necessary, consider creating a visual “checklist” for the students to use!
Keep their personal space tidy: Keeping their room or toy areas picked up instills in children the importance of organization and responsibility. Families can stress the importance of having a tidy area, respecting their supplies and toys, as well as the responsibility of taking care of their items.
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