Page 44 - August 2020 - The Castle Pines Connection

44 CastlePinesConnection.com Intern writer off to college By Lisa Nicklanovich; courtesy photo The Castle Pines Connection would like to thank Sarah Bermingham for her contributions as an intern writer the last ve years. We wish her well as she heads o to college. Sarah began writing as an intern when she was a student at Rocky Heights Middle School and contributed articles throughout her high school years at Rock Canyon High School (RCHS). Sarah will be attending Colorado State University (CSU) in the fall, studying biomedical engineering and biological and chemical engineering, taking on a ve-year double-major program. Sarah covered events for the RCHS band and orchestra and wrote engaging stories about many RCHS activities, including business, science, sport and study-abroad programs, to name a few. Sarah enjoyed covering school-wide events like Wish Week and the “Kindness is Contagious” campaign, as well as community service stories. Sarah is a very strong student and said she loved all her classes at RCHS, especially biology, English and orchestra. She has played the violin for many years, loves to ski, and is usually reading several books at once. Sarah said she is thinking of applying for a job with the Rocky Mountain Collegian, CSU’s newspaper. Sarah said, “I’ll see how it ts into my schedule, but I think that would be super cool if I can pull it o !” Check out her last story for The Connection on what to pack for college on page 45. Rock Canyon High School graduate and CSU freshman Sarah Bermingham. Mrs. Abramovitz, our child is leaving for college and we need some encouragement around the empty seat at our family table. Could you help us? I would be honored. Our youngest just left for the Air Force Academy in June, and we’re left with an odd number of seats and dare I say, an odd feeling ourselves. The table is where so many memories are made, where we gather to eat, drink, tell stories and be heard. And while the table remains, the empty chair will have to be grieved to some extent. I would encourage you, when you feel comfortable, to invite someone new to the table? Open your home and hearth to another family member, or community member. Share what you have and listen and learn. Or how about start thinking about the return of your loved one? Maybe make plans for their visit and craft a menu of all their favorite dishes. If you are empty nesting, when you’re ready, you can relish this newfound freedom for all it’s worth. Overall, you should accept your feelings, make plans to see your loved one, schedule some fun and consider new family traditions. Send those care packages and leverage technology to keep the family connected. Conversations can still be as funny or as serious as they were in the kitchen. When your child ourishes you should be proud, and you should remember that you should ourish too. In keeping with table talk, let’s chat about how our kids can help out. When they’re little, try making a game out of setting the table. Maybe put all the plates, napkins, silverware and glasses on the table and have the kids sort it all out. Fork has four letters so it goes on the left (four letters). Knife and spoon have ve letters so they go on the right ( ve letters). The knife is always placed next to the plate with the cutting side toward the plate and the spoon lives on his right. My boys always loved the idea of the “BMW” starting on your left ... it goes bread, meal, water – or making an “ok” gesture with both hands (the left hand looks like a “b” for bread and the right hand looks like a “d” for drink.) Whenever you sit down at even the fanciest of dinners, you can discern what is yours and what is your neighbors. After all, part of ourishing is having these societal skills. August 2020