Page 40 - Fuck the Matrix The Removal of Any Black Man´s Confusion
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You already have an idea that confidence is important because you have
         experienced the joy of women. Your level of confidence has attracted certain
         types of women into your life. If you didn’t get what you wanted, you have every
         reason to check yourself.


         Eventually, a woman matures beyond just having a cute guy with a nice car and
         clothes and desires a man that can protect her and the children and of course,
         offer financial stability. So, the thought of traveling and fucking clueless babes
         because you think women want to “taste chocolate” is inane. After all, men
         gradually seek women that are maternal, nurturing and protective.


         Even business is about confidence. Hell, we’ve all been told that something will
         not work or that our idea is fucked up. People want to do business with someone
         that is confident.



         Prior to moving to Mexico and studying medicine, I was average. And then
         rumors began to circulate that a Cuban from the United States was curing
         people. Having people refer to me as an American and a Cuban gave me lots of
         clout. The rumor suggested that I had received a wonderful education in the US
         and Cuba. To no surprise, people do not believe that I am not Cuban. And I do not
         fight them about it because my skill level says that I am “Cuban”. Plus, if and
         when I accept a case, I am confident that I can reverse the condition.



         People will invest in you, if you have confidence. But if you lack magnetism, they
         don’t care if you went to Morehouse or Harvard – they will not trust you. People
         want to be associated with winners even if they are losers.



         Easily, I can say that fear is a cause for the lack of confidence found in Black men.
         As brothas we already know to give our best. So, despite your innate ability, you
         met someone on your journey that told you that you weren’t shit. It has
         happened to us all. Yet, some of us were hard-headed, didn’t hear it or didn’t give
         a fuck.



         It really comes down to honesty, introspection and what you are willing to give in
         order to get what you want. Do you think you deserve to be happy? Are you
         willing to put someone else’s happiness before your own happiness?
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