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As our relationship with Swami intensifies and we offer ourselves to him through serving our families and society, we have to be ready to face our fears, anxieties, anger, and sadness along the way. These obstacles represent aspects of ourselves that must be overcome and released for us to aain purity.
Obstacles, difficulties, and sacrifice are part of the spiritual path and of all meaningful relationships. For instance, in a marriage, initially there is a honeymoon period when everything seems perfect. As the relationship develops, hidden conflicts and fears bubble to the surface, puing a strain on the relationship. For the union to succeed there must be a maturation of character and a willingness to sacrifice selfishness. The process of overcoming fears and personality weaknesses as we develop purity of character and selflessness is the purification process.
Outer Obstacles
The purification process takes place on many levels. Outer obstacles test our determination and intensity. Inconveniences, discomforts, and hard tasks strengthen our character and deepen our faith. We must discipline ourselves to overcome laziness and selfishness. The first steps on a spiritual path could include a change in diet (becoming a vegetarian) and a disciplined schedule of devotion, study, and service. As our intensity increases and we become more determined in our efforts, obstacles might become greater still. We might travel long distances to go to conferences or even take a pilgrimage. Along with the growth that comes from these activities, we must also expect the tests.
For example, I am sure that the physical trip to Swami is meant to test our determination to overcome discomfort and laziness. There is a disruption of sleep, exposure to new foods, and extreme fatigue from the long trip. The 12,000-mile flight
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