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I believe that sometimes even the most conscientious and responsible people who have studied money management make mistakes, spending lavishly and then experiencing buyer's remorse or investing too quickly without checking the fine print or asking enough questions. These types of mistakes happen because people aren't allowing themselves to notice their negative emotions, explore them, and learn what lessons these feelings hold for them.
If you're uneasy about an investment, purchase, or loan, pay attention to that feeling. Sit with it, and don't let yourself feel rushed. Create a sense of calm. Then ask yourself, What is it about this purchase, investment, or loan that doesn't feel right? Don't be afraid of the answer, which may be one of the following:
• I feel pressured to invest in order to please my financial advisor, who is very enthusiastic about this opportunity. I'm feeling fearful, not confident.
• I feel resentful buying this item I don't really want, but I'm afraid my spouse will be angry with me if I question this purchase or say no.
• I feel scared because I don't really understand this investment, and I don't have faith in my ability to learn more about it so that I can make an informed decision.
You have much wisdom, and that nervous feeling in your gut, the tension in your neck, and the second thoughts that keep popping up at odd moments are all messages from your wise self, saying, Look again, but more closely this time.
When you let go of your fear of experiencing difficult emotions, you break down the brick wall between you and your natural wisdom about acquiring and maintaining wealth. Then you can let go of unproductive thoughts such as: I'm no good at this "money" stuff, and I don't trust myself investing, and I can't be trusted with too much cash-I'll just spend it all. You can reclaim your power to create positive emotions about abundance and open the faucet of plenty so that riches flow into your life.
One effective technique for uncovering any hidden thoughts or beliefs that are causing you to cut off the flow of abundance is to keep a daily Assets and