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Louisa, you speak of loving him unconditionally. Loving every part of him. The dark, the light.
Now I'm asking you to stay strong in this. Walk in your role as his helper and scout, lacking
nothing. I need to see you beat this. I need to see you choose Me, choose him. His heart is broken,
something that I have guided and loved him through up until this point. Now trust Me with him
and trust that I have placed you in his life so that he may feel that he is pleasing to me. That he is
obedient. That he is enough. That he is loved. That he is wanted. That I want him to be a man who
steps forward in his life, a fierce, wild, and passionate warrior, something that I have planted in
his heart. I will never stop fighting against the enemy for him.

Now to you, My sweet, sweet daughter. I am guiding you through relearning the heart, soul, and
mind of a man. I'm right here with you to erase the bad "truths" of what you have experienced.
Sweetie, the heart of a man, was created to be confident, with no limits. Your heart, as a woman, I
created to be tender sometimes yet fierce other times. My heart is that I want to be loved by you. I
want to be your number-one priority. Never fear going against something that you know might win
the attention or favor of others but will compromise the truth of My Kingdom. Let me love you in
this season of your life – building up your fierce side, yet softly validating your tender side. You
will need both. I have complete confidence in you that in this season, you will come out more of
the woman created in My image than you could ever hope for or imagine. Let Me finish My work
in you.

Henry, you have stated to her that you have also struggled with the battle against the flesh, just as
she has. You see the pain and destruction that has come out of it. I plead with you not to lead her
into that same path of brokenness. She has already been so wounded. But I have faith in you. I
believe in the man you have become through Me to be the warrior she needs. The warrior you
need. The warrior I need for My Kingdom. The one I thought of and envisioned for you before I
formed you in your mother's womb. I set you apart because I created you in My image. I know
each freckle on you she wants to discover. Let her love you unconditionally. Let her lead you as
she feels it is Me. I have appointed her as that.

I need you to help Me save her from this state she has accepted living in, a state of accepting
scraps versus the feast I have set out for her. Help Me love her so as to crush these lies she has
had to accept. Every doubt, every fear. Her heart is just a part of Mine as yours is. Her soul aches
to feel My breath in her lungs as you do. This is one of the many reasons I believe in you both. I
know you (and her) may be fearful of what the lack of sexual intimacy will do – diminish your
closeness as a couple, foster distance, feed into her insecurities of you being distant, cause her to
be in discomfort. I'm here to tell you that those are not fears from Me. If you honor Me in this, I
will bring you closer. I will foster oneness. I will kill distance. It will be difficult. There will be
times you will need to lead her and times she will need to lead you. But I'll be right here with you.
Seek mentors in this. Bring them in. Pull from My strength in them. They are there to help, as am
I. She will go through discomfort – as will you. But her discomfort will need to be met with your
gentle touch of words and righteousness in your actions. She needs to know that I – and you – see
her as worth the wait. As she sees you. I will guide her through selflessness to see your discomfort
and meet yours with hope.

This prayer – or rather, this word from God – reflects His heart. We are made in His image, and part of that is the
longing to lead a righteous life. In all areas of our relationships, it is a trait to be admired. Embrace it.

Unfortunately, in this particular situation, I was unable to properly communicate this to the man in my life. Looking
at the data, I see where the discrepancies were, both on my part and his. I am able to analyze what went wrong and
what went right. Not all data will be as pleasant to grasp. Not all raw data is going to be pleasant to process. But stay
encouraged. With understanding in your heart, peace will flood your mind, leaving you confident and ready to move
to the next step.

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