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29. Fulfills our purpose together
30. Ensures I do not have to live in constant fear of his interactions with other women
31. Has unswerving authenticity
32. Is well-traveled and well-rounded
33. Is informed and passionate about politics (balanced with it)
34. Loves to reveal his heart to me again and again
35. Is a leader – takes the initiative in making decisions
36. Has a healthy sense of urgency with goals and tasks
37. Has the strength, passion, and vision for dream execution
38. Is a handyman
39. Enjoys cooking
40. Wants one to two kids

— Third List — Six Years Later

1. Has a deep understanding of the Heart of God the Father, Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit
2. Lives in a constant, joyous relationship with all three – Father, Son & Holy Spirit
3. Desires to get to know me on a deeper level with each day that passes
4. Challenges me and can keep up with me in conversation and otherwise — Intellectually, spiritually, physically, &
emotionally
5. Community Servant; Makes a dent in societal fallacies

I hope reading my list has left you inspired and ready to write your own! As you can see my list over the years has
shortened in length. In part, this is because I have developed into my own person a little more, growing in my own
Romantic Intelligence and now have begun to attract a different kind of person, where the long-detailed list is no
longer because they are already inferred and included. Here’s something to ponder as you’re making it: all the things
you’re looking for in a mate, ask yourself if the present-day you is ready for such a person? Would a partner of this
ideal caliber see in you all the things on their list as well?

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