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Person 28: I honestly think it just takes time for the sting to go away. I think it differs from person to person. I think
it's a process to get over it, not something one can do and then just be over it. The worst thing I think one can do is
think or question if they did or didn't do something and that led to them being cheated on. I've been on both sides of
that coin, and it is unpleasant either way. I've also been in a situation where I felt confident in how I was treating my
girlfriend at the time, and she wanted to go out with an ex of hers because she wanted closure. She was at least
honest about wanting to meet with him for that. I told her that if she wanted and needed that, then she should, that I
trusted her enough not to jeopardize what we had. I said that I was confident that I treated her with respect and felt
we had a good thing going. If she jeopardized that by doing something, then that was on her. If that were the case,
then clearly there would be something else going on that we'd need to address.
Person 29: Time heals all wounds.
Person 30: Attitude. Mindset. Positivity. It’s that simple.
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