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Understand Your (And Your Client’s) Negotiation Style
Are You Naturally Cooperative or Competitive?
How lawyers and their clients approach conflict is important to understand as you approach a negotiation. Some people are more naturally competitive than others. In his negotiation skills course, Pepperdine Law School Professor Peter Robinson explains that some peoples’ natural instincts are to be competitive and others are naturally more cooperative. According to Professor Robinson, neither is necessarily better than the other but recognizing our own instincts and those of the opposing party will make you a better negotiator.
The competitive approach to negotiation is sometimes called distributive bargaining – determining through negotiation how to split a fixed sum. The pie cannot be expanded so the only way I get a bigger piece is to reduce the size of your piece. On the other side of the spectrum is what is called integrative bargaining — cooperation to increase the size of the pie.
All good negotiators and mediators are able to at least explore cooperative alternatives even if they, and their clients, are fiercely competitive.
The Pepperdine skills course uses a game to demonstrate variations of the same negotiation if both
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