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U.S. NEWSMonday 18 July 2016

American Living:

Small-town pride: LGBT stigma fades as civil rights are won

DAVID DISHNEAU                 Ron Beachley, left, and his great-nephew Todd Garnand stand         fights the establishment of    clared same-sex marriage
Associated Press               on the back deck of Beachley’s home near Hagerstown, Md.            gay-friendly student orga-     “contrary to God’s will,”
HAGERSTOWN, Md. (AP) —         Beachley, who is gay, says it boggles his mind that a pride festi-  nizations in public schools.   in a statement last year.
Ron Beachley remembers         val, which is being organized by Garnand, is being held on the      He said LGBT centers prey      Rhonda Smith, business ad-
slipping through the side      same downtown block where he was once afraid to be seen             on troubled kids, and pride    ministrator for the church’s
door of a downtown Hag-        slipping into a gay nightclub.                                      parades are hyper-sexual-      Appalachian conference,
erstown hotel into the Bull    (AP Photo/David Dishneau)                                           ized demonstrations by dis-    said by email, “We are not
Ring, a gay nightclub, in                                                                          turbed individuals. “You’ll    haters nor do we wish to
the early 1980s.               America. There were 252        the building, or a back en-          see all kinds of abnormal      comment” for this story.
“You didn’t want anybody       pride festivals in the United  trance displaying a sign             and destructive behavior       Russ heard a different mes-
to see you,” he said, “be-     States in 2015, up from 179    and rainbow flag.                    celebrated,” Camenker          sage from Hagerstown
cause sometimes at clos-       in 2014, said Sue Doster, a    Mormon church policy                 said. Anti-gay sentiment is    Mayor David Gysberts, who
ing, people would get beat     co-president of InterPride,    holds that acting on same-           more often expressed on-       told her school’s anti-bully-
up in the street.”             which tracks and promotes      sex attraction is a sin, peo-        line now, said Gavin Grimm,    ing assembly that he is gay.
Beachley, now 69, plans to     the events. CenterLink, a      ple in same-sex couples              a transgender 17-year-old      “It was just very cool to see
be out in broad daylight       network of LGBT resource       can be excommunicated,               in rural Gloucester County,    someone like a mayor say
Saturday as the western        centers offering everything    and their children cannot            Virginia, who challenged       that in front of a bunch of
Maryland town of 40,000        from legal aid to youth ac-    be baptized until they’re            his school district’s bath-    kids,” she said.
holds its first downtown       tivities, now reaches across   18 and have disavowed                room policy and won in         Gysberts said he encour-
LGBT pride festival, on the    40 states, with a member-      homosexual relationships.            federal appeals court. The     aged organizers to move
same block where the Bull      ship that has nearly qua-      Still, Nestor said he’s seen         school district asked the Su-  the pride festival down-
Ring once stood.               drupled to 170 in the past     little open hostility. “I was        preme Court on Wednes-         town from the county park
He calls it “mind-boggling”    decade, said CEO Terry         born and raised in the val-          day to block Grimm from        where it had been held for
that lesbian, gay and trans-   Stone. Tom Nestor said he      ley here,” said Nestor, 60, “I       using the boys’ restroom       several years.
gender people can cele-        co-founded the center in       never thought I would see            when school resumes in         “I think this is very good for
brate openly in the center     downtown Pocatello, Ida-       gay marriage and a sign              September until the high       the community and a posi-
of the historically blue-col-  ho, in 2012, in response to    that said LGBT on it in the          court decides whether to       tive sign that we’re making
lar city 70 miles from Wash-   LGBT teen suicides in south-   state of Idaho, and now              review the case.               progress,” he said.
ington, D.C.                   eastern Idaho, a conser-       we have both.” The trend             “The negative people are       Former mayor William
Pride events have been         vative, rural region with a    alarms Brian Camenker, ex-           cowards,” Grimm said.          Breichner made headlines
held annually in the na-       large Mormon population.       ecutive director of MassRe-          “They sit behind a com-        in 2003 when he likened
tion’s capital since 1975,     People can visit discreetly,   sistance, a Waltham, Mas-            puter and say whatever         a proposed drag queen
but change has come            through a coffee shop in       sacusetts-based group that           they want but that’s as        pageant in the city to a
much more slowly in small-                                                                         far as they go. The people     Ku Klux Klan rally or a hobo
er communities. Advocates                                                                          who support me go out of       convention because of
say that only now, after                                                                           their way to contact me        what he considered nega-
federal court victories le-                                                                        and reach out in a positive    tive publicity.
galizing same-sex marriage                                                                         manner.”                       Breichner said he’s fine with
and affirming other LGBT                                                                           Ty Russ, a 15-year-old trans-  the pride festival, though:
civil rights, have lesbian,                                                                        gender girl in Hagerstown,     “You know, the times have
gay, bisexual and trans-                                                                           said she was confused by       changed considerably
gender people been able                                                                            sermons at her family’s In-    and, naturally, my thoughts
to live openly without fear                                                                        ternational Pentecostal Ho-    regarding that sort of thing
of discrimination in many                                                                          liness Church.                 of have changed,” he said.
small towns. The proof can                                                                         “Those people were really      Festival organizer Todd Gar-
be seen in pride festivals                                                                         nice but preached hate,”       nand, 29, is a great-neph-
and LGBT resource centers                                                                          Russ said.                     ew of Ron Beachley,q
popping up across rural                                                                            The denomination de-
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