Page 3 - Course 3 Neurobiology Part 3 Signs of Stress: Positions
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The Blamer




      The Blamer is someone who judges, criticises or blames other people

      when things aren’t how they want them to be.



      If you have slipped into a Blamer position, you might hear yourself

      saying:


                                                                                                       If they could just be
          The trouble with him                                                                               a bit more …
                      is ….




                                                                                                       You just need to get
               She’s useless!                                                                                  on with it!








          She’s always picking                                                                             This is rubbish!
                     on me.







               It’s their fault!                                                                      If it wasn’t for you, it
                                                                                                         would all be fine.





                                                                                            Adapted by K Messenger from The Drama Triangle by S Karpman.
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