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                Keep brains calm                     Listen to understand                   Share your concerns                     Solve for next time
         Wait until everyone is calm! Introduce    Ask ‘clean’ questions, then wait.     Keep a kind, matter-of-fact tone.    Wait – don’t fill silence with your own
           the issue in a matter-of-fact way:   Repeat what they say. Try to work out    Challenge, do not blame. Keep the       ideas – push the child to think of
             “I noticed …  What was up?”          the unmet needs & missing skills.      blamer out of it using ‘I’, not ‘you’.  solutions that are ‘Good for everyone’.

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