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We can get our DOSE in helpful or unhelpful ways


                      Helpful                                                          Unhelpful



                    ▪ Starting a new interest / club                                ▪ Trying to win in in a way that isn’t great for others

                    ▪ Knowing what you want to get good at                          ▪ Taking other people’s stuff
                    ▪ Planning a goal (make it specific) e.g. to be able to  ▪ Forcing others to do what you want
                       get to a certain grade in karate or do a specific            ▪ Doing things that are unsafe or risky but give a sense of
                       number of keepie-uppies                                          power, control and success



                    ▪ Finding ways to make new connections e.g. joining             ▪ Being in a ‘gang’ that gets involved in things that aren’t
                       a sports, music or interest club                                 good for others
                    ▪ Inviting someone you like to do something you                 ▪ Joining in with teasing or bullying against someone else

                       enjoy
                    ▪ Keeping in touch with old friends                             ▪ Mucking around with friends in a way that isn’t good for
                                                                                        others e.g. joking around in class
                    ▪ Volunteering in the community


                    ▪ Entering a competition                                        ▪ Trying to win against someone in a way which makes them
                    ▪ Auditioning for a part                                            feel bad
                    ▪ Asking for a special job within the home /                    ▪ Boasting about being better than others

                       school/club                                                  ▪ Putting others down
                    ▪ Helping at a club for younger children                        ▪ Leading and influencing others to do antisocial acts
                    ▪ Volunteering in the community                                 ▪ Anything which helps a person feel like the top dog


                    ▪ Joining a sports or dance club                                ▪ Doing things that are fun but unsafe or risky e.g.
                    ▪ Aerobic activities e.g. a vigorous run                            trespassing to take part in unsupervised parkour
                    ▪ Joining a drumming group or band                              ▪ Exercising so much it causes damage to the body
                    ▪ Watching some comedy                                          ▪ Self-harm
                    ▪ Getting involved in outdoor adventurous activities            ▪ Getting involved in activities which are exciting but illegal

                       e.g. indoor rock climbing                                        or antisocial
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