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Strengths Focus: People Skills




























                    We looked at your People Skill strengths this week.

































                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            You noticed that
                                                Helpful                                                                             Caring                                                                            Loving                                                                                  Kind                                                                      Empathic                                                                         Generous












                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            you have lots of












                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            strengths in














                                                                                                                                                                                                          I am loving to                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    People Skills.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     I think of the feelings

                                                                                                                                                                                                                     others.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 I am happy to give
                                                                                                                        I show care to                                                                                                                                                  of others and want


                              I am quick to offer                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  and share with
                                                                                                                                   others.                                                        I say and do things                                                                them to feel safe and                                                                  I can imagine how


                                     help to people                                                                                                                                                which help others                                                                                     content.                                                           others are feeling.                                                                                others.





                                          around me.                                                            I go out of my way


                                                                                                                         to make sure                                                           feel cared for, loved                                                                    I do and say things                                                           I do and say things to                                                            I will do this even if it                                                          You are kind,






                                   I look for things                                                            people around me                                                                           and loveable.                                                              which help others to                                                                      help others feel                                                               means I have less

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               myself.

                                 that need doing.                                                               feel physically and                                                                    I am gentle and                                                                   feel physically and                                                                                  better.                                                                                                                                       compassionate



                                                                                                                  emotionally well.                                                                          affectionate                                                                 emotionally good.






                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            and honest.





                                                 Playful                                                                         Friendly                                                                            Patient                                                               Compassionate                                                                             Thoughtful                                                                      Considerate




















                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            These are












                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            incredibly






                                                                                                                                                                                                   I am good at waiting
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     I listen and look out for


                                                                                                                                                                                                                  for things.                                                                                                                                             the needs of others.



                                   I play games and                                                           I show care to others.                                                                       I stay calm and                                                          I feel for others when                                                                                                                                              I think about the needs                                                             important skills



                           have fun with people.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         they have had bad                                                                 I do things so other                                                            and wishes of others.
                                                                                                                                                                                                   positive when there                                                                luck or are suffering.




                                                                                                               I go out of my way to                                                              are delays, problems                                                                                                                                                       people feel better,                                                           I do and say things so                                                           that you are


                            I can be light-hearted                                                                 make sure people                                                             or things going wrong.                                                                                                                                                     both physically and                                                             that others feel good.




                            and not too formal or                                                                      around me feel                                                                                                                                                   I want them to feel                                                                          emotionally.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           For example, I tidy up

                           serious so that others                                                                        physically and                                                                  I do not become                                                                better and offer my                                                                       I do not expect                                                        after myself so a space                                                            already strong in.



                                              feel good.                                                            emotionally well.                                                               annoyed or anxious                                                               support and comfort.                                                                         anything back.                                                           is pleasant for others

                                                                                                                                                                                                    when this happens.













                                             Attentive                                                                              Funny                                                                           Honest                                                                Socially Flexible                                                               Socially Inclusive                                                             Socially Adaptable
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            These will help you













                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            lots now and in












                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            your future.















                             I give people my time




                              and attention so that                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               I adapt to new




                                    they feel valued.                                                        I make people around                                                                         I tell the truth.                                                                       I am good at                                                       I am good at including                                                            situations and people


                                                                                                                                me laugh.                                                                                                                                                        compromise.                                                                    others who are                                                                               quickly.



                                                                                                                                                                                                 I do not lie, cheat or
                              I stay focused on our                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            different to me.


                                                                                                                      I can change the                                                           take things which do                                                               I am able to give up a
                           discussion or task. I do                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     I can fit in, whilst still


                                                                                                                 mood of a group so                                                                  not belong to me.                                                                 little of what I want                                                               I help them to feel
                              not get distracted by                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     keeping to my values




                            other people or things                                                            people smile and feel                                                                                                                                                     to make it work for                                                          they count and matter                                                              and to what I know is


                                                                                                                                       good                                                      People can trust me.                                                                                 everyone.                                                                    to the group.                                                                                right.
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