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If an ADULT tells YOU what would work better for THEM, you will get a chance to understand

how things are for others and be clear about what would work for everyone …

What would be better for me is …

For the times we have agreed for coming home to be kept to.

I would then think “We are finding ways we can both be happy and I can

trust him.”

I would be able to give you more and more freedom, knowing I could

trust you to keep to what we had agreed.

I would feel much calmer and happier.

Adapted for young people by K Messenger from Clean Feedback Model (www.trainingattention.co.uk)