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Skills that support helpful (pro-social & pro-learning) behaviour



  FLEXIBILITY





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   2. EMOTIONAL FLEXIBILITY

   When things go wrong, I react in a way that is about right for the size and seriousness of the issue.

   When I am upset by something, I can recognise accurately how big a deal the issue is.
   When things are not as I would like, I can soothe myself quickly, look at the wider perspective and focus on
   positives and possible solutions.

   When things are not as I would like, I can take a wider perspective e.g. If I want pizza but there is none left, I can
   soothe myself with thoughts that I can have pizza another time and there are other foods I can enjoy now.
   When something is difficult or unpleasant, I can remember that experiencing a range of emotions is normal and
   there will be happier moments ahead.

   When I experience unpleasant feelings such as sadness, jealousy, shame or disappointment, I can remind myself that
   it will not last forever and I can soothe myself.
   3. COMPROMISE
   I will do something I do not really want to do.

   I can compromise a bit of what I want so that other people have some of their wishes too.
   I can follow an instruction or direction given by someone else and can manage not being in charge.
   I can follow someone else’s way of doing something, even if it is different to the one I felt was best.

   4. I CAN PROBLEM-SOLVE CREATIVELY
   I can think of different solutions to a problem, rather than getting fixed on one idea.

   I can shift away from the original plan, idea or solution.

   I can think through different options before making a decision.
   When I come across a problem or difficulty, I stop and think of different ways to solve it.
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