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PROBLEM                              STOP                               START                                      ACTION




                                                                                                           ▪ Take boiled eggs to work
    I’ve put on loads                   I want to stop                   I want to start                   ▪ Have healthy snacks in car

    of weight.                          eating rubbish.                  eating healthily.                 ▪ Buy sparkling water and not wine
                                                                                                           ▪ Have miso soup in bag as a filler
                                                                         I want to start                   ▪ Find ways to block sensory distractions

    I get easily                        I want to stop                   being able to block                  e.g. where you sit / silencing
                                                                                                              notifications.
    distracted.                         getting distracted.  distractions and                              ▪ Strengthen circuits for task focus by
                                                                                                              conscious practice, time and work at
                                                                         focus for longer.                    extending 1 min at a time.

                                                                                                           ▪ Ask an adult for mediation sessions to
                                                                                                              resolve any conflicts between you and
                                                                                                              others.

                                                                         I want to have good               ▪ Try to Mindsearch: What are you
                                                                                                              thinking and feeling? What might they
                                        I want them to stop connections and                                   be thinking and feeling? Step into their
    They all hate me.                                                                                         mind: what would help them to feel a
                                        hating me.                       feel liked by my                     better connection with you?

                                                                         peers.                            ▪ Think baby steps: what is one tiny step
                                                                                                              towards a better connection with them?
                                                                                                           ▪ Look for interest clubs or voluntary
                                                                                                              opportunities that appeal to you where
                                                                                                              you can meet like-minded people.
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