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School culture & mindset



     A. WE RECOGNISE THAT                B. WE SUPPORT CHILDREN  C. WE RECOGNISE THAT  D. WE ARE FLEXIBLE AND
     SOME CHILDREN WILL                  TO MAKE PROGRESS OVER  DYSREGULATION IS A                                 SUPPORTIVE – WORKING

     STRUGGLE TO REGULATE  TIME – WE DO NOT                                     NEUROBIOLOGICAL                    WITH CHILDREN
     – IT IS SKILL, NOT WILL             EXPECT INSTANT CHANGE                  THREAT RESPONSE
                                                                                                                   We are in control, not

     We recognises some                  We know that skill building            We recognise                       controlling and on the child’s
     children will struggle to           takes time. This means we              dysregulation as a                 side as their strong educator.
     regulate more than others.          may have to put in protective  neurobiogical threat-
                                                                                                                   We are insistent and persistent
                                         measures and reduce                    based response and we
     We recognise that this is a                                                                                   about children making
                                         freedoms – this is done in a           respond in ways to
     result of higher unmet              supportive way.                        support re-regulation.             progress – we do this with a
     needs and weaker                                                                                              bucketful of kindness.
     Executive Function Skills.          We do not give ‘last chance’           We have a culture that             We are flexible and permit
                                         threats – we work with                 does not interpret
     We plan with children to            children to put in the                 dysregulation as a chosen          strategies for de-escalation
     make sure they are not              provision that will support            unacceptable behaviours.           that work for the child e.g.
     placed in situations they           their progress and growth.                                                having options for where to go
     cannot yet manage.                                                                                            and what to do to support

                                         We are ‘Curious, not furious’                                             their re-regulation.
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