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but	 easier	 to	 deal	 with	 because	 (unlike	 institutions)	 you	 have	 the	 power	 to
shape	 their	 behaviour.	 Some	 thieves	 are	 deliberate—they’re	 trying	 to	 hijack
your	 time	 so	 they	 have	 less	 to	 do	 themselves.	 More	 often,	 though,	 thieves
don’t	 even	 realise	 they’re	 doing	 it—like	 the	 insecure	 colleague	 who	 insists
on	 talking	 through	 all	 their	 dilemmas	 in	 the	 hope	 that	 you’ll	 make	 up	 their
mind	 for	 them,	 or	 the	 person	 who	 wants	 to	 talk	 about	 some	 meeting	 you’re
only	 peripherally	 involved	 in	 but	 which	 is	 very	 important	 to	 them.

In	 which	 case	 don’t	 just	 nod	 and	 watch	 your	 own	 time	 slip	 away—explain
in	 a	 friendly	 but	 firm	 way	 that	 you	 have	 a	 rush	 job	 right	 now	 but	 what
they’re	 saying	 sounds	 very	 important,	 so	 they	 should	 jot	 down	 the	 key
points	 in	 an	 email/memo	 for	 you	 and	 you’ll	 look	 at	 it.	 This	 does	 two
things.	 The	 first	 is	 that	 true	 time	 thieves	 will	 never	 actually	 write	 down
their	 musings	 because	 it	 seems	 like	 work,	 and	 the	 second	 is	 that	 deliberators
will	 often	 come	 to	 their	 own	 conclusions	 when	 they	 set	 their	 thoughts	 down
on	 paper	 (or	 screen).

   HERE’S	 AN	 IDEA	 FOR	 YOU…
   If	 someone	 wants	 to	 talk	 about	 a	 document,	 development	 or	 agenda
   insist	 they	 send	 it	 to	 you	 first.	 If	 you	 allow	 them	 to	 discuss	 it	 before
   you	 see	 it,	 they’ll	 try	 to	 paint	 the	 whole	 thing	 in	 their	 own	 words
   (needlessly,	 since	 it	 already	 exists)	 or	 colour	 it	 with	 their	 agenda.
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