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                                                                                                                                   refined Melbourne accent. Eggy didn’t suffer fools. She might
           Meredith Fraser Creightmore (1955)                 Mary Patricia Eggleston (1947)                                       raise one eyebrow, and this was not a good sign.’
           10 April 1936 – 23 February 2024                   25 January1926 – 9 May 2024                                                                                                The College acknowledges, in sympathy, those deceased
                                                                                                                                   Mary returned to Australia in 2001, after 50 years in the UK.   alumni of whom it has become aware since the previous
                                  Meredith Creightmore (or                           Mary Eggleston had a long and                 In retirement, she was a voracious reader, energetic traveller,   edition.
                                  Merry to her closest family                        outstanding teaching career in                friend to all dogs and wildlife and tireless volunteer worker –   Together with the accompanying obituaries, the
                                  and friends) was a trailblazer                     the UK. She was a formidable                  driving for the Royal Societies for the Blind in the UK and later   College has also learned of the following deaths in our
                                  in her professional life, a                        teacher and a lifelong learner.               Australia, and working in the archives at Burnley Horticultural   community:
                                  devoted daughter and sister,                       As her first headmistress                     College.
                                  and a treasured and loyal                          identified: ‘Teachers like Miss               Throughout her life, Mary was a vital member of her extended
                                  friend. She was also a generous                    Eggleston are rare.’                          Australian family, with strong connections to her six siblings   Camilla Fligelman (Chance 1959)
                                  philanthropist and donor to                                                                      and their families. She lived life with optimism and curiosity and   2 March 1940 – 4 May 2022
                                  the arts.                                          Mary grew up in Melbourne in
                                                                                     the midst of a large family and               independence to the end.
                                  Meredith and her identical twin                    the disruptions of the Great                  Sarah Stephen                                          Pamela Larritt (Oddie 1962)
                                  sister Diana were born in 1936                     Depression and the Second                                                                            12 August 1943 – 10 May 2023
          in Perth under the original family name of their architect father   World War. Her unusual path to the classroom was shaped by   Friend
          Augustus (Gus) Kreitmayer. With the onset of WWII imminent,   these times and reflected her intrepid nature and passionate
          and correctly anticipating anti-German sentiment in Australia,   curiosity about the natural world.                        Valerie May McDowell (Bendle 1945)                   Gwenneth Marian Vaughan (1949)
          Gus changed his surname by deed poll to Creightmore on 31
          March 1939.                                        Mary spent her final school years at Fintona Girls’ School,             30 July 1927 – 9 October 2024                        19 December 1928 – 28 June 2023
                                                             where she was Head Prefect in 1943. Here she was fortunate
          Meredith was the most senior ranked woman in her branch   to encounter the new Principal, Margaret Cunningham, a                                  Valerie Bendle was born to
          in Australian Defence Intelligence during her service from the   progressive thinker in girls’ education who became a lifelong                    Myrtle and Albert Bendle      Robin Mary Villwock (Izon 1953)
          1960s to the early 80s. She chose to retire early after the office   friend. Cunningham quickly recognised Mary’s ‘outstanding                    in Geelong, Victoria. She     25 November 1935 – 08 January 2024
          was moved from Melbourne to Canberra, so that she could   gifts as a natural leader’ – a case of mutual recognition between                       attended The Hermitage in
          remain in Melbourne with her beloved mother, Isobel, and her   strong, independent women.                                                         Geelong, finishing in 1944 as
          twin sister. Diana, too, was a successful, independent woman                                                                                      Head Prefect and Dux of the   Helen Margaret Allnutt (1960)
          who became the Deputy Manager at the Menzies Hotel and ran   In 1944, Mary started a Bachelor of Agricultural Science at the                      School.                       14 April 1942 – February 2024
          her own catering service in South Yarra.           University of Melbourne and stepped into a very different
                                                             world. This included a year in residence at the Dookie                                         She studied for her BA,
          Meredith was a director on the Board of the Lyceum Club, a   Agricultural Campus, where she appears in photos as the only                         majoring in Maths, English and   Elizabeth Caillard (1954)
          Life Member of the Lake Karrinyup Country Club in Perth and a   woman in a sea of men in tweed jackets.                                           Education, graduating in 1948.
          longstanding member of the Victoria Golf Club in Cheltenham.                                                                                      While still a student she met   24 March 1935 – 20 May 2024
          She and Diana were the most loyal and devoted friends one   In 1947, she spent her final year in residence at Janet Clarke Hall,                  Christians at the Evangelical
          could hope for, taking an interest in the lives of their friends and   where her older sister, Joan, had also been a resident and was   Union and was inspired to commit her life and work to Jesus.
          family, always offering generous hospitality in their home in   Senior Student in 1946. Mary was a talented sportswoman and   After graduation she taught Maths and English at various   Lucille Elizabeth Voullaire (1963)
          Melbourne and their lovely log cabin at Launching Place.   earned a University Blue in baseball and selection in the State   schools, including The Hermitage.                  10 October 1944 – 28 May 2024
                                                             baseball team.
          My mother and aunt, who arrived in Perth as stateless migrants                                                           In 1953, Valerie married Ian McDowell whom she had met in her
          from Europe in 1950, lived opposite the Creightmore household   On graduating, Mary took the bold step of taking up a three-  JCH days when he was a ‘neighbour’ at Trinity. A year later they   Anne Hignett (1963)
          for almost a year and were immediately befriended by Meredith   year position in Papua New Guinea as an Agricultural Welfare   welcomed their first child, David, who was soon followed by Joy   5 December 1944 – 12 June 2024
          and Diana before they returned to Melbourne with their   Officer, preceded by five months training at the Australian     and then Michael.
          widowed mother. They remained lifelong friends of my mother   School of Pacific Administration. As PNG emerged from the
          and aunt, befriending our extended families as we travelled   war years, her diary records that she was: ‘travell[ing] widely   In 1961 the family moved to Sydney and Valerie taught English   Margaret (Peg) Lade (Webb 1947)
          around the world.                                  through the Territory, studying the medical, social and               and Public Speaking at Emmaus Bible College. It was in Sydney
                                                             educational work of the Australian mission … [b]roadcasting in        in1964 that her fourth child, Paul, was born. For the following   28 July 1928 – 29 October 2024
          They loved and supported all the fine things in life – from food   local dialect on agricultural matters’.               decades until 1987, Valerie taught scripture in the local schools
          and wine, opera and ballet, to the footy (AFL), though to the                                                            and also travelled Australia with Christian Women’s Conventions
          best of our knowledge they never had ‘a team’.     In 1951, Mary left PNG and set off for London and a career as a       International (CWCI) as a Bible teacher and speaker.   Jane Anketell Carnegie (1964)
                                                             teacher, specialising in zoology/biology. From her first entry to     Valerie and Ian moved back to Melbourne in 1984 where Valerie   24 December 1945 – 14 December 2024
          A tribute to Meredith would not be complete without a   the classroom at an inner London comprehensive school, her       taught in schools, served on the Board of the Bible Society and
          reference to her immense pride in her great-aunt Vida Goldstein   passion for teaching was clear: ‘the lives of many young people   ran a ‘Know your Bible’ group in her home for more than 30
          and grandfather, Maximilian Ludwig Kreitmayer. Goldstein, an   with whom she has worked have been entirely changed and   years.
          Australian suffragist and social reformer, was one of the first   for their good’. From 1956 to 1962 she was Biology Assistant
          four female candidates at the 1903 federal election,  and the   Mistress and House Mistress at the Royal Merchant Navy School,   Following Ian’s passing in 2008, Valerie embraced overseas
          Bayside Melbourne electorate of Goldstein is named after her.   Bearwood. It was here that she met Phoebe Fox, a lifelong   travel for the following decade, often with her daughter.
          Kreitmayer arrived in Australia in 1856 and was the celebrated   friend and partner in adventure.                        In 2024, following a major operation and a serious infection,
          founder and proprietor of Melbourne’s first waxworks, and                                                                Valerie’s life ended quietly. In her own words, ‘What a privileged
          creator, among other things, of the Ned Kelly death mask   In 1963, she took up the position of Biology Mistress at St.   life I have led! All the way, my Saviour led me.’
          displayed at the old Melbourne Gaol.               Catherine’s School, Bramley, Surrey. She later became Head of
                                                             Science, a position she held until her retirement in 1985. Mary       Joy Cooper
          Martine Letts                                      had enduring friendships with many students. Former ABC               Daughter
          Family friend                                      journalist Ticky Fullerton was one of them. She wrote of Mary:
                                                             ‘She was known to all as Eggy, whether you were in her class or
                                                             not. No other teacher at school or university had any impact on
                                                             me at all. Eggy changed my life … Eggy was Australian with a

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