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Inside the Mind of a Sociopath
        are vengeful and will exact severe retribution if they  and insensitive. They are cold, calculating, greedy and
        feel thwarted or attacked.                           overly-entitled.


        A sociopath will rarely take “No” for an answer.     Sociopaths have no qualms about breaking society’s
        They are relentless in the pursuit of their goals. They  rules or using others as stepping-stones on their way up
        become enraged when frustrated and will behave       the ladder of success. Still, many are able to cultivate a
        punitively toward anyone who they believe has        benign or even sweet demeanor, which enables them to
        gotten in their way.                                 ingratiate themselves to potential victims.
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        This type of person can be highly impulsive and      On the extreme end of the sociopathy range are the         A
        unconstrained by the usual human self-preservation   rapists, sadists and serial killers who take pleasure      P
        instincts. If we expect that they won’t do something   in causing humiliation and pain. Then there are the      I
        because it’s risky or foolhardy, we’ll be wrong.     pimps, blackmailers and members of motorcycle gangs
        There’s very little to stop them from putting        and other types of organized crime. They employ            T
        themselves in harm’s way in the pursuit of their     either charm and seduction or bribery, coercion and        A
        goals.                                               intimidation to entrap their victims.                      L


        The sociopath in our midst can be the charming con- The more intelligent the sociopath, the more dangerous
        artist; the married celebrity with a pristine public   they are. These people are the predators of the human    P
        persona but multiple secret mistresses; the ultra-   race, and just as a great cat is able to identify the      U
        charismatic, corrupt politician or the evangelical   weaker animal within a group and to sneak up on it, the
        minister with an enormous, generous congregation.    sociopath will recognize the needy, the vulnerable and     N
                                                             the naive. The intelligent sociopath is more successful in   I
        A sociopath strongly craves a position of power,     part because they’re that much better at disguising their   S
        and will frequently seek out jobs where they can     true intentions.
        dominate, control or oppress others. Lawyers, police                                                            H
        officers, doctors, teachers, coaches, clergy, therapists,  The antisocial individual exploits the emotional     M
        CEOs and politicians will always have a certain      weakness in their prey in the same way a lion or a         E
        number of sociopaths in their ranks.                 leopard takes advantage of a lame or diseased gazelle.
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        In their roles as leaders of industry and society,   recognize and exploit the weak areas in someone’s          T
        sociopaths can do a lot of harm. Examples of this    personality.
        are big corporate polluters, CFOs who steal millions
        from their share-holders; police officers who abuse   Children are sitting ducks for sociopaths because
        the citizens they’re honor-bound to protect; and     they are defenseless against them. That’s why it’s so
        coaches who take advantage of their young charges.   important for them to have good supervision. For adults,
                                                             holding on to any child-like traits, such as being overly-
        Other examples are therapists who sleep with         trusting or credulous is never wise.
        troubled clients; politicians who make billions for
        their own private companies through war-mongering;  An attitude of healthy skepticism is far safer. Those who
        modern-day spiritual leaders whose true goal is to   insist on believing that everyone is “nice” and has good
        sexually or financially exploit naive followers and   intentions will be as vulnerable to being preyed upon as
        investment gurus who promote Ponzi schemes and       any actual child.
        later blame their victims for their “greed.”
                                                             When it comes to our dealings with politicians,
        Sociopathy, like any other psychological disorder,   financial advisors or CEOs, to be well-informed is to be
        has a range of severity. People who merely have      empowered. Along with being skeptical, knowledge and
        antisocial traits tend to be thoughtless and         understanding of a given situation makes it that
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