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You've choices between good and bad. If you're seeking the good in
somebody, you'll most likely discover it. If you're seeking the bad in
somebody, you'll most likely discover it. The option is yours.
Regrettably, from time to time it so happens that the bad takes charge
in people’s lives, demolishing the good in them.
Many individuals think they read minds. They frequently put words
in the mouth of other people, instead of hearing what is really said to
them. Don’t do it.
Behaviors, thinking formulas, habits, conduct, and the like requires
adjusting to live a happier life. When you let bad behaviors dominate
your mind, you're injuring your health.
When you paraphrase during communication you summarize what is
being stated. When you reiterate info it clears up communication,
which develops a much richer relationship. Let’s view an illustration
to help you see how paraphrasing may reduce argument.
Sue: John, I need to purchase a new dress for the approaching event.
John: You want a new dress?
Sue: Well, yes, I'd enjoy a new dress.
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