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        nationwide that will pro-  try to report it to another    Linsey finally received   ing to go back overseas,
        vide free programs to en-  female supervisor, I was    some counseling when       preferably to Japan, so
        courage female veterans to   told, oh, what did you    she got out of the service.   they can show their chil-
        move forward by offering   think was going to happen?   “What really saved me,    dren more of the world.
        events and classes that will   You let him in your room.   or should I say helped me   I asked Linsey what
        further their education,   So I was basically told to   through the process, was   suggestions she would give
        careers and overall well be-  get over it. I would never   that I met an amazing   to any of our readers who
        ing. The staggering statistic   want another woman to be   lady that does meditation   wish to enlist in the mil-
        that female veterans are 2   treated this way.”        and I started going to her   itary. “I had one negative
        1/2 times more likely than                                                        incident in my time in the
        non-veterans to commit                                                            Navy, it was at the begin-
        suicide and that there are                                                        ning of my career, but that
        an estimated 3,600 female                                                         doesn't define my career
        veterans that are currently                                                       at all. I still went on to do
        homeless. As Americans,                                                           14 years, and I was very
        we need to support each                                                           successful in my career.
        other, and as a country,                                                          I think the military is a
        we need to help not just                                                          great life for women to ex-
        our male veterans, but our                                                        perience. I would just say
        female veterans as well.                                                          not to be naive. I would
           Unfortunately, Linsey                                                          also suggest that they go
        knows first hand what                                                             to college before joining
        these women are going                                                             the service, which gives
        through. When I asked                                                             you more options as to
        her what her favorite part                                                        what you want to do while
        of being in the military                                                          in the military. I complet-
        was and what her least                                                            ed my degree while in the
        favorite part was, she                                                            service, but it took me 14
        shared a very personal                                                            years to do so.”
        event, which has led her to                                                           To Linsey and her hus-
        her current dedication to                                                         band, and all who serve in
        Veteran Sisters.                                                                  our military and dedicate
           “My favorite part of                                                           their lives to keeping us
        being in the service was       Linsey shared some      classes. I started to feel so   all safe, we want to say a
        the time I spent in Japan,   information from Veteran   much better.”             resounding “Thank you
        but my least favorite part   Sisters, and after talking   Linsey plans to one     for your service.”
        is the reason I got involved   with her, I was shocked to   day open her own med-     To learn more about
        with Veterans Sisters. I   hear how prevalent sexual   itation studio so she can   Linsey and Veteran Sisters
        had a sexual assault that   abuse is in the military.   help victims of sexual    contact her at linseydaley.
        happened during my first   "It runs rampant in the     assault, or anyone that has   veteransisters@gmail.com
        year in the military. While   military. I think still to this   any type of trauma or has   Support the incredible
        in the Military, we are told   day. I mean they have a lot   gone through that type of   work being done by Vet-
        that our fellow service men   more programs, and a lot   event in their life, because   eran Sisters by attending
        and women are our family.   of advocacy for victims that   meditating really changed   their upcoming Poker Run
        Unfortunately, not all the   they didn’t have when I was   her life.              and Benefit Concert on
        men are aware of this, and   going through this. I held   Linsey has only been    June 15th in Winchester
        one whom I thought was     onto that experience for    out of the service a year   California. Visit their site
        a good friend took advan-  14 years, and even when I   and settled in California,   at www.veteransisters.org
        tage of the situation."    got out because I was told   where her husband is      to learn more, to make
           This was back in 2005   that it was my own fault    currently stationed. They   a donation, or to obtain
        before there were programs   for what happened, and    are scheduled to be here   tickets to this wonderful
        available to help women in   no woman should ever be   for the next three years, at   event.
        this situation. “ When I did   treated that way.”      which point they are hop-

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