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(Remarkable                                                                            EOB:  Tell us
         Tech) when                                                                             about something
         COVID hit                                                                              positive that has
         last March                                                                             happened since
         and so we                                                                              starting That’s
         were                                                                                   Handi.
         sprinting
         forward                                                                                Heather: OMG
         when the                                                                               there have been so
                                                                                                many things! I
         rest of the                                                                            think if we sum up
         world was at                                                                           all of the
         a standstill. I                                                                        incredible and
         was stood                                                                              positive things that
         down from                                                                              have happened
         my day job                                                                             they would be the
         in
         advertising,                                                                           result of the
                                                                                                amazing people
         and had                                                                                who have joined
         more time to fully focus on         my sense of self.  I am excited
         Handi. I believe that if it wasn’t   for a possible vaccine, but angry   our team or lent their support to
                                                                                  what we are doing. It is
         for COVID we probably               that disabled people have not        incredibly humbling to have
         wouldn’t be as far along today as   been prioritized.   The pandemic
         we are. The adult industry has      has also highlighted the             people offer their time and talent
                                                                                  because they believe in your
         also seen a massive amount of       ignorance and ableism of             cause and they believe in you.  It
         growth during the time of
         lockdown - people are really at        “None that looked at              literally does take a village to
                                                                                  launch a start up and I still pinch
         home drinking and wanking -           what it FEELS like to              myself when I look around at the
         according to the data of course,     have sexual experiences
         haha.  Obviously its been hard             and a disabled                amazing humans who are a part
                                                                                  of ours. To each and everyone of
         and we’d never look to minimize                                          them - I am so incredibly
         what people around the world          experience. We wanted
         are going through,  but there        to fill that void, looking          grateful.
         have been a lot of silver linings      at questions that had             EOB:  Tell us about The
         to come out of COVID.                    never before been               Handi Book of Love, Lust and
         Andrew: Covid has changed              openly explored and               Disability.
         everything.  It has illuminated             talked about.”               Heather: The Handi Book was
         the ableism that disabled people                                         the first product and first book
         have been talking about forever     everyday folks, and that has been    that Handi released. It was born
         (apparently, we can work from       especially frustrating.   I promise   from the realization that while
         home).  It has changed my           the second it’s over, I will be      there is content that exists about
         relationship with my disability,    booking lots of hours with my        sex & disability, its all very
         my sexuality and my work.  I        favorite sex worker.  I deserve it!   clinical and it’s very focused on
         haven’t been able to have sex in                                         the mechanics - can disabled
         a year and it has greatly affected                                       people have sex (yes), are they

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