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EOB: What do you feel empowers you and Two, was my security and I escorting them out,
why? and option three was ... and then I decided for
them, "I choose option three!” and requested two
Coralyn: I empower myself. I look back on what SWAT officers escort these four out of my event
I have done. I have faced (We had a swat team of 11
hardships, but I keep “I empower myself. I look back on men on the hotel roof that
going. I keep striving for what I have done. I have faced hard- night due to what has
more. I keep sharing more ships, but I keep going.” recently occurred in
and creating more. I Vegas). Needless to say,
believe I empower myself word got around don't mess with Miss Hankie
and I hope my fans, readers, and listeners can take
these words and empower themselves. I am a true Pankie.
believer we all have a story and we all have EOB: Tell us about “Patience will prosper.”
overcome obstacles in life, but this is how we
learn and we can help ourselves as well as those Coralyn: This is a saying I continue to live by. As
a competitive figure skater, you can't land a jump
around us.
perfect on the 1st try or even the 50th. You can’t
EOB: Can you share a positive or fun story always win every competition. In school, you may
about your work as a Swingers Club owner not always get the best grades or highest test
and organizer? scores. It is a saying of
don't give up. I believe in
Coralyn: This is mind control to keep
kind of long but here trying, keep
it goes. At my persevering, and your time
Swinger events I am will come. I am 44 years
in charge. My old and only now do I truly
security knows that feel my time has come.
if there is an issue to
come get me first to EOB: You have had your
handle it. If I can't, share of adversities.
then they can step What have you learned
in. So, at one event from these and what
we had two couples advice can you give
in the main others who are currently
bathroom by the dance floor and they locked the going through some rough times?
door refusing to take their play to the other three Coralyn: Don't get down. I know this is easier
designated hotel playrooms with bathrooms. I
knocked and told them it was me, the hostess, said than done and trust me, I still sometimes feel
like giving up and throwing in the towel.
asking them to please leave this bathroom open
for guests needing to use the restroom. One of the However, look at what you have accomplished
males opened the door and shoved me, asking and what you still want to accomplish and live by
my saying, "patience will prosper.” Also, never let
what was I going to do about this. My security anyone ever tell you what you can accomplish or
attempted to jump in, but I stepped back and that you are doing "it wrong." Be you, trust in you
stayed calm saying they have three options at this and follow you.
point. One, was me walking all four downstairs
quietly, having them leave without making a scene.

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