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HOW LIARS DECEIVE

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             E E          verybody knows that lying is immoral. For this
                          reason, when people lie they try to ease their con-
                          science and find excuses. In fact, what they
             should do is confess their lies and tell the truth.
                 In addition, people need to know and recognize the camou-
             flage used by liars so that in the event that they lie, they will be
             unable to deceive themselves.


                 Those who claim to lie with good intentions
                 The best known method people use to deceive themselves is
             the claim that they have good intentions. For example, everyone
             criticizes and condemns those who gossip. But those who gossip
             claim that they do so only with the best of intentions, and so such
             talk is harmless. A large proportion of liars make the same claim:
             They have no evil purpose in mind, but are merely lying to de-
             fend themselves or to comfort another person. For example, a
             child who skips school claims that he lies to his mother so that
             she will not get angry.
                 Some people say that they lie because they are afraid of los-
             ing the love and trust of those close to them. For instance, people
             who are unsuccessful at work lie to hide their failure in a self-pro-
             claimed attempt to avoid losing other people's respect. Such peo-
             ple try to persuade themselves and those around them that such
             lies are harmless, since they have good intentions. In fact, in the
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