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Allah's Miracles in the Qur'an




                   The subjects of the experiments stated that they suffered less after
               forgiving people who had wronged them. The research showed that
               people who learned to forgive feel much better, not only emotionally
               but also physically. For example, it was established that after the exper-
               iment psychological and physical symptoms such as stress-related
               backache, insomnia and stomachaches were significantly reduced in
               these individuals.

                   In his book, Forgive for Good, Dr. Frederic Luskin describes for-
               giveness as a proven recipe for health and happiness. The book
               describes how forgiveness promotes such positive states of mind as
               hope, patience and self-confidence by reducing anger, suffering,
               depression and stress. According to Dr. Luskin, harboured anger caus-
               es observable physical effects in the individual. He goes on to say that:
                   The thing about long-term or unresolved anger, is we've seen it resets the
                   internal thermostat. When you get used to a low level of anger all the
                   time, you don't recognize what's normal. It creates a kind of adrenaline
                   rush that people get used to. It burns out the body and makes it difficult
                   to think clearly-making the situation worse. 73
                   In addition, Dr. Luskin says, when the body releases certain
               enzymes during anger and stress, cholesterol and blood pressure levels

               go up-not a good long-term disposition to maintain the body in. 74
                   An article called "Forgiveness," published in the September-
               October 1996 edition of  Healing Currents Magazine, stated that anger
               towards an individual or an event led to negative emotions in people,
               and harmed their emotional balance and even their physical health. 75
               The article also states that people realise after a while that the anger is
               a nuisance to them, and wish to repair the damage to the relationship.
               So, they take steps to forgive. It is also stated that, despite all they
               endure, people do not want to waste the precious moments of their life
               in anger and anxiety, and prefer to forgive themselves and others. 76
                   In another study involving 1,500 people depression, stress and

               mental illness were observed to be less frequent in religious people. Dr.




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