Page 37 - Character Types of the Unbelievers

Harun Yahya-Adnan Oktar
subconscious fears, and are afraid of being neglected, abandoned or
deceived. Recognizing that members of the society of ignorance are
not trustworthy, they are in constant fear of betrayal. So, they inter-
pret every thing that happens, and every word they hear, in this per-

spective.
If her husband or her children forget a wedding anniversary,
birthday or another special occasion, it provides an opportunity for
them to become overly sensitive and emotional. They will try to find
a hidden meaning behind the slightest oversight, and feel a deep
fear of being unappreciated or neglected. This psychological condi-
tion creates tension and often leads heated arguments.

However, a woman who is a believer does not have this de-
fect in her character. Above all, in compliance with Allah’s com-
mand, she is not suspicious about others or that which happens. If
someone says something or acts in a way she does not understand,
she will try to sort it out in her mind; she will try to understand that
person’s intention and act accordingly. But, she never takes offense
because of something she does not understand, or suppose the
meaning of a word spoken. She knows that being touchy is not in
compliance with the morality of the Qur’an. Moreover, because a fe-

male believer’s marriage and friendships are within the community
of other Muslims, confusion does not arise to such eruptions.
Because, it is the responsibility of believers to speak the truth clearly
and correctly. Allah forbids believers from using in their conversa-
tion the off-color innuendo and tasteless humor that is characteristic
of the wicked morality of a society of ignorance. We can see that a
woman who is a believer makes her life conform to the Qur’an, and

so is content and secure, and untouched by moral defects.

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