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5 Stages of Grief                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  International Culture







                                     Denial                                                                      Feeling numb is common in the early days after a bereavement. Some                                                                                   Mexico



                                                                                                                 people at first carry on as if nothing has happened.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      The Day of the Dead celebration is divided into two

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      parts: November 1, which is All Saints’ Day,

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      celebrates all the saints who had an exemplary life,

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      as well as the deceased children and on November
                                     Anger                                                                       Anger is a completely natural emotion, and very natural after someone                                                                                2, this celebration is symbolised my one flower the
                                                                                                                 dies. Death can seem cruel and unfair, especially when you feel
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      marygold.
                                                                                                                 someone has died before their time or you had plans for the future
                                                                                                                 together.







                                     Bargaining                                                                  Bargaining is when we start to make deals with ourselves, or perhaps                                                                                 New Orleans

                                                                                                                 with God if we’re religious. It’s also common to find ourselves going over
                                                                                                                 and over things that happened in the past and asking a lot

                                                                                                                 of ‘what if’ questions,                                                                                                                              The Jazz Funeral is a New Orleans tradition that celebrates life.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      Known as the birthplace of Jazz, New Orleans is known for

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      parades and celebrations that include lively music and dancing.
                                     Depression                                                                  Sadness and longing are what we think of most often when we think about                                                                              Jazz Funerals gained popularity in the 19th century as funeral


                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      attendees engaged in a procession. Mourners would follow a jazz
                                                                                                                 grief. This pain can be very intense and come in waves
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      band to the church or funeral location as the band played somber

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      music. After the ceremony, the music would change as the band
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      began to play more lively and upbeat jazz music.



                                     Acceptance                                                                  Grief comes in waves and it can feel like nothing will ever be right again.
                                                                                                                 But gradually most people find that the pain eases, and it is possible to

                                                                                                                 accept what has happened. We can learn to live again, while keeping the

                                                                                                                 memories of those we have lost close to us.
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