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I call it the "movie trailer method," because it taps into the images a
person plays in his or her mind about the future of the relationship.
I discovered that the things we want are tied to mini mental movie trailers
we play in our minds about what's coming next. So I began to look for
ways to tweak those mental movies.
I wanted to make the relationship look really enticing. And that worked
even better than I had hoped.
If you can get someone to want something bad enough, they let go of
all their logical objections and just go for it.
Suddenly, the guy who refused to offer forgiveness, does so willingly and
with tears in his eyes. And the couple who wouldn't stop bringing up an
old fight no longer finds it relevant to the future of their relationship.
It worked so well! It felt almost like magic to me.
So I put together an online relationship course to share this method with a
broader audience than I could reach one-on-one. You can read about it
click here.
But this report you're reading now is about a slightly different concept. It's
about clearing emotional pain to make way for beautiful new memories.
Cleaning Old Memories
Because memories trip us up in so many ways, Dr. Hew Len believes the
answer is cleaning.
He's a therapist who has lectured widely about an ancient Hawaiian
practice called ho'oponopono.
The Ho'oponopono philosophy can get pretty deep, but I'll just summarize
the gist of it by saying this: Asking for forgiveness resets your mind back
to its original state of limitlessness.
Your mind wants to constantly replay old memories, so your job is to
clean them up so you can truly be present.
"Cleaning" means removing the negative pull that past memories have
over us. It's like you're scrubbing your memories clean so they don't stick
to you anymore.
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