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The Value of Forgiveness
whereas if you follow the policy of forgiveness, it will
activate the other person’s conscience. And it is a fact
that, in controversial matters, the conscience always
plays a positive role.
Forgiveness and revenge are two different moral
cultures. The culture of forgiveness helps in the building
of a better society – a society where positive values
flourish, where the spirit of co-operation prevails, where
disparate groups join together and turn themselves into
a peaceful society. The outcome of vengefulness is quite
the reverse. The revenge culture creates an environment
of mistrust, in which everyone takes others to be his or
her rivals. In the last analysis, it rules out the growth of
a healthy society.
Sooner or later, everyone is bound to do something
wrong. But then the well known saying ‘To err is human’
should be borne in mind. This being so, taking revenge
means making not just one mistake, but making mistake
after mistake. On the contrary, forgiveness means
undoing wrongs with rights. It is better to concede
that, if to err is human, to forgive is even more human.
Indeed, it is this concept which is expressed in the well-
known saying: ‘To err is human, but to forgive is divine.’
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