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only if they follow the Sunnah of the Prophet, that is,
forgetting complaints and grievances.

41 Is there any possibility to get a
‘ perfect partner in this world?
’

perfect partner is a thing to groom, not to find or
A receive. Study tells that every man and every woman
has been created according to a different mould. When
no two have been created alike according to the creation
plan of God, how will you exactly find the person whom
you desire? You can only make your marriage favourable
by training the person whom you get married to. One
condition for this is that you accept criticism from your
spouse in a positive sense, without getting offended.

42 How to increase your power of grasp?

he more a person saves himself from distraction, the
Tmore his power of grasp develops. The worst thing
is to live in distractions. A person can know of his
distractions on his own. The more focused a thinker you
are, the more you are able to set aside non-trivial issues
as secondary and the more you will be able to develop
your ability to grasp.

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