Page 121 - The Book of Rumi

Valuable Advice

uring the prophet’s lifetime, people would travel from faraway lands to
Dpay him their respects in person, often enduring much hardship on their
journey. Generally, people came with their problems, and they always left with
valuable advice that turned their lives around for the better.
One day, the prophet was busy with his usual daily tasks when one of his
old followers, who had not seen him for a while, approached him. At fi rst, the
follower was reluctant to discuss his predicament with the great man, as he was
embarrassed to confess to his shortcomings. After beating around the bush
for a while, he fi nally presented his dilemma.
“I desperately need to hear your insight, my honorable friend,” he said,
swallowing his pride uneasily. “I’m supposed to be a businessman, but every
time I make a purchase, I lose money! It matters not if I’m buying or selling;
it’s as if I become enchanted and lose my grip and can’t see right from wrong
when the time comes to settle the business! My trading partners all get the
better of me, and I’m always left short. What can I do to stop this vicious
cycle?”
The prophet didn’t waste precious time and immediately advised his
friend: “When you see that you’re being taken advantage of and are unable to
make the proper decision, be patient and wait. In fact, try to wait for at least
three whole days, for patience is one of God’s most precious qualities, while
rushing headlong into decisions is specifi c to the devil!” He then continued:
“When you throw a slice of bread in front of a hungry dog, does he eat it
right away? Of course not! He fi rst smells it to make sure it’s safe, and then he
eats it. The dog uses his power of smell to make wise decisions as they pertain
to him, while men and women must use their minds and their wisdom!”
The prophet looked deep into his companion’s eyes and knew at once
that his advice had left its mark on the man’s consciousness. He was reassured
in his heart that his words would soon turn the man’s fortunes.

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