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WHAT DOES IT

MEAN TO BE A

WOMAN IN A

CHANGING WORLD

What is womanhood? her imperfect feet and still tell the In this year for international
I suppose Laura Marling in her world, she’s a woman. She’s bold women’s day, let’s raise our glasses
Semper Femina Album puts it and beautiful, in all her sizes. She’s to all the #ChooseToChallenge,
rightly, “Womanhood is something smart, talented and skilful whatever #SeeHer, #internationalWomensDay
you don’t consider until it hits you.” her level of education might be and trends and tweets. We are part of
This statement makes me wonder whatever her failures have been the generation making the changes.
what I thought of myself growing over the years. To be a woman in a We are the voices speaking truth
up as a girl and what other women changing world means to know that and life, inclusion and diversity, love
have considered themselves to be her mistakes and bad decisions can and strength and healing. To be a
over the years. To be a woman, a never stop her from rising, from woman in a changing world means
divine force of nature that is often going beyond, from giving it all, to gear up and suit up to be part
obstructed, challenged, broken and from lifting her soul and mind and of the conversation, to be part of
weakened. To be a woman despite stepping again into the world like the change, and to be part of the
all the odds that society has thrown it’s her centre stage because she innovation. We are teaching the girls
at us. To be a woman in a light is here to dance in whatever beat who will be women what it means
that reflects a godly and graceful she chooses. She’s learning, she’s to be a woman. What it means to
fragrance. To be wild, free and feisty. growing, she’s rewriting her story dream and aspire for change. What
To be elegant, graceful and virtuous. and she’s making all the former days it means to create, to collaborate
To be all the things that women of sadness, broken dreams and and to empower. We are teaching
weren’t supposed to be. To be bold shattered hopes insignificant. the girls what it means to be elegant,
and loud. To fill a room that wouldn’t sassy and fly and what it means to
house our kind. To stand up to the To be a woman in a changing world be a woman in the entertainment
times, shred the gender roles and means to hold everyone accountable industry, in the arts, in the sciences,
just do the things our minds and for injustice done to women. To in tech and engineering. Mostly
bodies have said they can handle. be the lead voice in a gathering, what it means to be a woman in a
to begin movements and trends changing world.
To be a woman in a changing world that fight for equality and equity,
means to be a woman in every justice and peace, inclusion and To all the girls and the women with
proportion that fits you. To be diversity, women empowerment, the skinny jeans and skirts, the
bold and proud, to be everything to be a feminist, to fight for women dresses and gowns, the sagging
a woman isn’t supposed to be. To and girls right, to fight for gender pants and T-shirts, the skinny cuts,
be sassy, boogie and fly. To be an equity, to keep the conversations the afros and natural hairs, the wigs
intellect, a mother, a wife, a friend on women’s rights going on. To and attachments, the hijabs and
but mostly to be a woman. To be celebrate the big wins and the small veils. To all the women working and
all those things that women were wins, to uplift the struggling women, dreaming, to all the women making
once and even more. Womanhood to create digital inclusion for women change, to all the women healing
is divine, a growth of imperfection in every aspect of society, to fight and loving, to all the women holding
mirrored into a purely perfect and against female genital mutilation, to the fort, and to every woman who
magical being. Maybe that is why fight for safe spaces. And above all doesn’t feel like a woman most
the girl at 8, 15, and 21 refuses to radiate love, beauty, confidence of the time, we’re saying to you-
to be called a woman. I suppose and kindness in a way that women CHOOSE TO CHALLENGE. And just
she knew she must grow into it. know-how. know our million voices are with you
She must fit into the perfect shoes all the way. So go all the way and be
with all her light and flaws, with part of the change.

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