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Broadcast flirting is on display for everyone to see.


                   When a woman uses broadcast flirting, everyone around can see what
                   she's up to.

                   For example, it's broadcast flirting when Debbie laughs at all of Daniel's
                   jokes at the office party and purposefully compliments him in front of
                   others.


                   Exclusive flirting is different. Think of it like an exclusive club. There
                   are only two people in the club, and the two people share something
                   exclusive.


                   You may think of yourself as someone who would never use flirting as an
                   attraction tool, maybe because of the potential for embarrassment or a
                   distaste for acting like someone you're not.

                   But that's because you think of all flirting as broadcast flirting.


                   Broadcast flirting dominates our perception of flirting because it's what we
                   see most often.


                   Exclusive flirting is different. It happens behind the scenes.

                   It's far more subtle, and in my opinion more effective.


                   Back to our story...

                   He was a few years older than her, and texting was not something he had
                   gotten used to.


                   She got him used to it.


                   He came to enjoy her text-based friendship and eventually asked her out.

                   So what was the 1% improvement?


                   It was creating an avenue for exclusive flirting.  In this case, it was finding
                   a way to interact privately.

                   That's one of my preferred strategies for early stage relationships.  Focus
                   on finding an avenue that makes exclusive flirting easier.


                   It's a 1% improvement that can build momentum fast.




                   Secret #3: Define Progress as "Pleasure"


                   Let's assume you're making progress with a guy. He's shown the early





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