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Accomplished. Heroic.
The specifics are different for every man.
Your guy might feel a deep need for his own space away from it all. A
house in the country where he has total control over his domain. Where
neighbors are a mile away.
Or he could hunger for freedom from responsibility and the time to do
what he wants.
Maybe he wants to go places. See new things. Explore. Experience the
world.
Whatever really matters to him, it's your job to discover it. And there are
methods to do just that.
I explore these methods in His Secret Obsession, a relationship course I
created to help women. Because you can't really tie your relationship to
his journey until you uncover the things he cares about most.
They are your window into his world. Into what makes him tick. Into what
motivates him at the center of his being.
For the sake of this report, though, we're going to jump past that. We're
going to assume that you know at least one desire that energizes him.
Here's how you pair that knowledge with goal-setting to really win his
heart.
Let's say he wants something relatively simple: more time to do what he
wants.
In that case, sit down and talk about specific things both of you can do to
help him achieve this goal.
First, list all the time-consuming tasks each of you do. Cleaning the house
or apartment. Mowing the lawn. Driving to work. Filing taxes.
Brainstorm ways to trade money for time. Could you pay someone to take
a few time-sucking tasks off your plates?
Determine whether it's worth it. Take it seriously. Calculate how much
time each task takes. And how much someone would charge.
Time is one of the few things you can't get more of in life. Finding ways
to free up more of your time can create an amazing feeling of happiness.
Especially if it's one of his deepest desires.
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