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           How Developed Are Your Self-Management Skills?
               For each statement, fill in the number that feels right to you, from 1 for “not at all true for me” to 5 for “very true
         for me.”

             1. I am aware of my values and beliefs.                                         1  2   3  4  5

             2. I have a system for reminding myself of what my goals are.                   1  2   3  4  5
             3. I find ways to motivate myself when I am working toward a goal.              1  2   3  4  5

             4. When I set a long-term goal, I break it down into a series of short-term goals.   1  2  3  4  5
             5. I am aware of my time-related needs and preferences.                         1  2   3  4  5
             6. I know how to use the SMART system to plan achievable goals.                 1  2   3  4  5

             7. I record tasks, events, and responsibilities in a planner and refer to it regularly.   1  2  3  4  5
             8. Knowing how technology can act as a time trap, I manage my technology use.   1  2   3  4  5

             9. When I procrastinate, I know how to get back on track.                       1  2   3  4  5
           10. I understand the hazards of multitasking and work to minimize it.             1  2   3  4  5

           Each of the topics in these statements is covered in this chapter. Note those statements for which you filled in a 3 or lower. Skim
         the chapter to see where those topics appear, and pay special attention to them as you read, learn, and apply new strategies.
               REMEMBER: NO MATTER HOW EFFECTIVELY YOU SET GOALS AND MANAGE TIME AND STRESS, YOU CAN IMPROVE WITH EFFORT AND PRACTICE.




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                                       Sources of Values
                                     Your value system is complex, built piece by piece over time. It comes from many
                                   sources—family, friends, culture, media, school, work, neighborhood, religious beliefs,
                                   and world events. Internet and social media are strong influences, in large part because
                                   of how frequently people interact with them. Positive effects of that include exposure
                                   to a great variety of perspectives, cultures, and ideas. Negative effects include exposure
                                   to destructive values, and potentially building an overdeveloped value of technology
                                   that can hamper in-person interaction.
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